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Nikki's avatar

I'm turning 36 soon and relate to this very hard. Especially reading it five minutes after my 14-year-old half sister made fun of me for using the "😩" emoji in a literal sense. I feel like I'm in a very bizarre in-between phase where I'm not even remotely a "grownup," but not in the cool young-people group either.

My 41-year-old boyfriend and I were at a bar recently where what we thought were literal children walked in. We were the only people there so we all started chatting and drinking together. Turned out they were 20-year-old college students with fake IDs. We both look young so they thought we were closer to their age and deemed us cool enough to party with them. But when they found out our age they started asking us for life/relationship advice like we were wise adults who had our shit together (bf does, I don't!). It was an unexpectedly fun and bizarre night where I simultaneously felt like an old lady and a cool young person—very whiplash-y. Also, it was the first time I've puked after a night of drinking since my 20s.

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gg2411's avatar

Wow this really spoke to me. Turned 30 during the pandemic. Was just saying to my partner last week that I heard the term millennial used for the first time by a gen z-er without the connotation of “young and irresponsible” and it was bizarre. Seems like overnight we weren’t the current youthful generation, which Im fine with but agree it feels like some steps were skipped.

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